Watch the Trailer for The Christian Atheist
“If you were to be put on trial for being a Christian, would there be enough evidence to convict you?”
Many believers have been challenged by this question. Do we know Christ well enough to walk in His footsteps? Perhaps the problem is that we believe in Him, but do not know enough about what He wants for our lives.
Craig Groeschel defines a Christian Atheist as someone who believes in God, but lives as though He doesn’t exist. Believing in Him must lead to knowing Him. The way to know Him is to study the word of God, and spend time with others who are doing the same. We invite your group to participate in lesson one of the video study of The Christian Atheist.
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When You Believe in God but Don’t Really Know Him
belief in the existence of God
disbelief in the existence of God
acting with apathy, disregard, or lack of interest toward
belief in God
one who professes belief in the teachings of Christ
believing in Christ but living as if He doesn’t exist
Video Teaching: When You Believe in God but Don’t Really Know Him
As you watch, use the outline below to follow along or to take notes on anything that stands out to you.
So many people believe in God but they do not know Him (Titus 1:16).
Three levels of knowing God
- Level 1: I believe in God, but I don’t know Him.
- Level 2: I believe in God, but I don’t know Him well.
- Level 3: I believe in God, know Him intimately, and serve Him wholeheartedly.
Example: David is described as a man after God’s own heart (1 Samuel 13:14).
What you call God often reveals how well you know Him.
If you seek God with all of your heart He will reveal Himself to you (Deuteronomy 4:29; Ephesians 1:17-19).
Discussion: When You Believe in God but Don’t Really Know Him
Take a few minutes to talk about what you just watched.
- What part of the teaching had the most impact on you?
- How do you respond to the idea of “Christian Atheism”?
Activity: How Well Do I Know God?
Complete this activity on your own.
- Briefly review the following list of statements and mentally check those you feel are true for you.
_ I believe God loves everyone, but I sometimes struggle to believe that God loves me.
_ I often feel disconnected from God.
_ I pray when I need help, but I don’t routinely spend time with God.
_ I feel trapped in a cycle of shame about my past.
_ I don’t feel much need or desire to read the Bible.
_ I sincerely believe in God, but I can’t say I prioritize my life around Him.
_ I don’t feel the same devotion to God as I did when I first became a Christian.
_ There are some things about me that I know aren’t what they should be, but I don’t know if I can ever really change.
_ My belief in God doesn’t seem to keep me from worrying a lot.
_ My lifestyle, actions, and decisions don’t always line up with what I say I believe about God.
_ I don’t talk about my faith with people who don’t believe in God.
_ I don’t experience worship or express praise to God in my daily life.
_ I find it difficult to forgive people who have hurt me.
_ My sense of security is impacted more by how I am doing financially than by how I am doing spiritually.
_ I believe in God, but I’m not so big on the Church.
_ I’m not sure my heart breaks for the things that break the heart of God.
_ I tend to diminish or overlook my sins and failures rather than grieving them.
_ I don’t often experience a passionate desire to please God.
_ It feels like a long time since I’ve heard God’s voice or experienced God’s leading in my life.
_ I sometimes feel God is not fair.
_ It’s rare for me to feel completely surrendered to God. Sometimes I’m not even sure I want to be.
2. Which two or three statements on the checklist best describe where you’re at spiritually right now. Or you may wish to write your own statement.
Discussion: How Well Do I Know God?
- Describe your experience of working through the checklist. For example, was it uncomfortable, confirming, surprising? Why?
- Would you say that the level at which you know God now is the highest it’s ever been? Lowest? Somewhere in between?
- If you feel comfortable, share one or more of the statements you noted on the checklist. Why do you think this statement is true for you right now?
Connecting Love and Obedience
Throughout the Old and New Testaments, the Bible makes a strong connection between knowing God and living for God. In an authentic relationship with God, it is impossible to separate love from obedience, belief from behavior, faith from practice. Each reinforces and balances the other.
- Go around the group and have a different person read aloud each of the passages listed below. As the passages are read, underline any words or phrases that stand out to you. You may wish to read each passage twice to give everyone time to listen and respond.
Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; He is the faithful God, keeping His covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love Him and keep His commandments. — Deuteronomy 7:9
But be very careful to keep the commandment and the law that Moses the servant of the Lord gave you: to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to Him, to keep His commands, to hold fast to Him and to serve Him with all your heart and with all your soul. — Joshua 22:5
If we are to be new people in Christ, then we must show our newness to the world. If we are to follow Christ, it must be in the way we spend each day. — William Law, A Serious Call to a Devout and Holy Life
Fine feelings, new insights, greater interest in “religion” mean nothing unless they make our actual behavior better; just as in an illness “feeling better” is not much good if the thermometer shows that your temperature is still going up. — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
The word obedient comes from the Latin word audire, which means “listening.”… Jesus’ life was a life of obedience… Jesus was “all ear.” — Henri J. M. Nouwen, Making All Things New
Such people claim they know God, but they deny Him by the way they live. — Titus 1:16
And we can be sure that we know Him if we obey His commandments. If someone claims, “I know God,” but doesn’t obey God’s commandments, that person is a liar and is not living in the truth. But those who obey God’s word truly show how completely they love Him. That is how we know we are living in Him. Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did. — 1 John 2:3-6
- Based on these passages, how would you describe the connection between loving God and obeying God?
- Describe the characteristics of someone trying to live one way or the other — loving God without obeying God or obeying God without loving God. In either case, what good things do you think the person might miss out on in their relationship with God?
- Would you say you have experienced what the passages describe — obeying God out of love and loving God with your obedience? If so, describe your experience and how it’s impacted you. If not, what would you say is the hardest part for you — obeying God out of love or loving God with your obedience?
There is only one way to love God: to take not a single step without Him, and to follow with a brave heart wherever He leads. — François Fénelon, Christian Perfection
What [God] desires is reverential intimacy. He wants us close enough to Him that we know His heart — close enough to hear His heartbeat. He wants to look into our eyes, and He wants us to look into His. — David G. Benne, Surrender to Love
- If we affirm that failures to obey God are sin, the next challenge is how to overcome those failures in our lives. In Surrender to Love, author David Benner describes the role of God’s love in helping us move from disobedience to obedience:
My attachment to sinful ways of being is much too strong to ever be undone by mere willpower. . . . Genuine transformation requires vulnerability. It is not the fact of being loved unconditionally that is life-changing. It is the risky experience of allowing myself to be loved unconditionally.
If genuine transformation requires vulnerability, do you think disobedience could be described as a refusal to be vulnerable with God? Why or why not?
Would you say that you have had a risky experience of allowing yourself to be loved unconditionally by God? If you have and if you feel comfortable doing so, share that experience and the impact it has, or once had, on your ability to obey God. If not, what do you think prevents you from allowing yourself to be loved unconditionally by God?
Individual Activity: What I Want to Remember
Complete this activity on your own.
- Briefly review the outline and any notes you took.
- Write down the most significant thing you gained in this session — from the teaching, activities, or discussions.
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